Don't Underestimate Yourself

As Kids, We Think We Can Do Anything.

As time goes by, the world closes in on us, and we hear voices say “we can’t”. We hear that we are not good enough, that we are no good at this or that, that we should stay in our lane and not try new things, especially if they are big steps.

We hear that the world is dangerous and what can happen if we step out of line.  We learn to fear failure and let it stop us.

We create a self image out of all of this.  A self-concept that “this is who I am,” and along with that, “this is who I am not.”  Once that happens, most of us live our days believing it and behaving according to it, even if it is self-limiting.

For a while, it may work out.  But for man,y you feel something is missing.   Something is not right.  You are unfulfilled.  Many adults suffer from ADD – Adventure Deficit Disorder.

It’s not a bad idea to do things that for you, are “out of your box”.  Try new things.  Don’t be afraid to look silly or be a novice again, even though you are used to being an expert at who you have been being and what you have been doing for so long.

Tell you kids “You can do anything you really want to do and put your mind to.”  Then tell yourself the same.  

Ask “What do I REALLY want?”  Because desire is the starting point of all achievement. Without a desire to do a thing, it is impossible for you.  With a strong desire, nothing is impossible.